Today I was discussing something with a friend. Certain fears I had for not reaching expectations in trying to help others. Some of us are on certain courses, or set certain tasks to help people, but what happens if that person doesn't want to be helped? Or chooses not to listen to what the divine have to say?
I cannot help but to take it personally if someone does not heed a warning, or want to be helped- but as my lovely friend said "You cannot help those who do not want to be helped, you can't guide those who seek to remain blind." It leaves a dilemma. We can tell people of the messages we are delivered, but we cannot enforce people to follow them. Each person is responsible for their own will and action. They can heed the advice we give them, they can follow it, if they choose. But at the end of the day, we cannot enforce. I do not think I would even want to enforce it.
The great thing about serving Enki are his messages. As much as I try to do as asked, sometimes it is impossible for me to be able to do aught else then to SAY what is needed to be said.
I can be hard on myself as much as I like, it does not mean the person will care, take notice or even listen. All I can do is what is asked of me.
The best we can do for someone is lay the fruits on the table, whether they choose to eat is entirely up to them.
Just as I am responsible for passing on messages ( relevant or not), people have their own responsibility to receive them upon deaf or open ears.
A lesson I will learn.
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Well put...when faced with this dilemna, a cry seems to erupt from within, but you reached for the proper conclusion, and I applaud you.
ReplyDeleteThe way you feel and the need to help, is at the essence of many people. But we can not force anyone. We can but assist through an inherit desire, and a willpower which is founded in respect for choices. But do not ever help another person to the point of doing harm to yourself, because then you are robbing something from your core. We use what we have in the moment, with the knowledge given, to offer what we can.
From my experience, I approach these situations from my higher self, or the spirit if you will, or the soul, whichever name anyone chooses. Then I am given through intuition the grander perspective in each case, and act accordingly. In a way we are all co-creators on the path to growth.
On a different note...wow, I've been going through your page and you truly are returning to the roots. By doing so, you can plod forward in life with a better understanding, and marry these concepts to do your part on this wonderful earth. NEVER stop learning, and NEVER stop believing in yourself.