Responsible for our own actions.

Today I was discussing something with a friend. Certain fears I had for not reaching expectations in trying to help others. Some of us are on certain courses, or set certain tasks to help people, but what happens if that person doesn't want to be helped? Or chooses not to listen to what the divine have to say?

I cannot help but to take it personally if someone does not heed a warning, or want to be helped- but as my lovely friend said "You cannot help those who do not want to be helped, you can't guide those who seek to remain blind." It leaves a dilemma. We can tell people of the messages we are delivered, but we cannot enforce people to follow them. Each person is responsible for their own will and action. They can heed the advice we give them, they can follow it, if they choose. But at the end of the day, we cannot enforce. I do not think I would even want to enforce it.
The great thing about serving Enki are his messages. As much as I try to do as asked, sometimes it is impossible for me to be able to do aught else then to SAY what is needed to be said.

I can be hard on myself as much as I like, it does not mean the person will care, take notice or even listen. All I can do is what is asked of me.
The best we can do for someone is lay the fruits on the table, whether they choose to eat is entirely up to them.
Just as I am responsible for passing on messages ( relevant or not), people have their own responsibility to receive them upon deaf or open ears.
A lesson I will learn.